When Silence Becomes the Enemy
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There is a peculiar kind of dread that only appears when nothing is happening. Not when things are bad. Not when the news is terrible. Not even when the world is clearly going off the rails. Those moments, oddly enough, have shape. They have focus. They give the mind something to press against. But when the phone doesn’t ring... When the email doesn’t arrive... When the diagnosis is still “pending...” When the world seems to pause without explanation... That’s when the silence starts to hum. Most of us like to think we fear bad news. In reality, we often fear uncertainty more. Bad news hurts, but it also clarifies. It tells you where you stand. It gives you something solid to respond to. Silence does the opposite. Silence invites imagination, and imagination is rarely kind. In real life, this shows up everywhere. You’re waiting to hear back about a job. Every hour stretches. Every notification feels loaded. You replay the interview in your head, looking for clues that w...